DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex says we are over but I’m struggling to accept it.
I’m a 55-year-old man and she’s 45. We met online and were together for three years.
My partner dumped me because I wouldn’t marry again but I can’t get over it[/caption]
She wanted to get married but I’m a divorcee so I didn’t want to commit to somebody again.
She gave me an ultimatum, then she ended it. But I loved her and still do.
I’ve tried dating again but I can’t get over her. I put on a brave face for my family and friends but I’m in pieces.
Caught my girl in bed with another man… then he did something I didn’t expect
SEX WITH SISTER
I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
My girl’s wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I’m disgusted with myself
My brother-in-law is my daughter’s real father… and my husband has no idea
More, more, more!
Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
Family are furious over my hot sex with brother’s sister in law
I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
I’ve been bedding my ‘uncle’ and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
I had hot sex at Glastonbury… but I was the 20th guy she’d bedded that weekend
DEIDRE SAYS: You sound so sad but why let a bad experience in the past wreck a potentially happy future?
If you get help to understand why your relationship went wrong – and how to avoid those mistakes – you could eventually get back together with the woman you love.
My e-leaflet on How Counselling Helps can tell you how to find a reputable therapist.
Let your ex know you are trying to move mountains (of misery) for her sake.
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