DEAR DEIDRE: I’M still in the friend zone with a girl I’ve been messaging for a few weeks and I don’t know how to make the next move.
I’m 20 and she would be my first relationship. She’s 19.
We have lots in common from what I’ve read on her online dating profile. And the fact she was on a dating app means she wants a relationship, right?
We just talk about what we’ve done each day but I just feel so useless in asking whether she really is interested in me. Can you help?
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DEIDRE SAYS: She may be as shy as you are.
Sometimes it just takes a bit of courage to make the first move. When you’re talking, say something along the lines of a film you’d like to see or a concert you’d like to go to and ask whether she’d consider going with you.
She may say no but, on the other hand, she may say yes and you can then decide whether this could be the start of something special.