THE most romantic day of the year – Valentine’s Day – is just weeks away.
Let’s take a look at the story behind the celebration of all things romantic, and the saint who gave his name to the holiday.
When is Valentine’s Day in 2019?
The day is celebrated annually on February 14.
In 2019, Valentine’s Day falls on a Thursday.
While it is recognised as a significant cultural, religious, and commercial celebration of romance in many regions around the world, it is not a public holiday in any country.
Who was St Valentine?
Valentine’s Day is named after Saint Valentine – and there were actually three Saint Valentines.
All three men lived during the 3rd Century AD, but in two different countries.
Saint Valentine of Rome and Saint Valentine of Terni both lived in Italy, while the third lived in a Roman province in North Africa.
On February 14 each year, we celebrate the life of Saint Valentine of Rome, who was incredibly unlucky and ended up being beheaded.
The church itself has some doubts about what specifically happened during Saint Valentine’s life.
In 496 AD, Pope Gelasius I described St. Valentine as a martyr like those ‘whose names are justly reverenced among men, but whose acts are known only to God.’
Pope Gelasius I understood how little was known about the saint when establishing February 14th as the day to celebrate Valentine’s life.
He explained that St. Valentine of Rome was supposedly a temple priest who was executed near Rome by the anti-Christian Emperor Claudius II.
His crime was helping Roman soldiers to marry when they were forbidden to by the Christian faith at the time.
It is widely believed that he is buried in a cemetery just outside in the north of Rome.
How did St Valentine become associated with lovers?
When Pope Gelasius I dedicated February 14 to the saint, he chose that date to replace the traditional Roman feast Lupercalia, a pagan festival popular at the time.
Lupercalia was a fertility festival in honour of the god Faunus (Lupercus), the protector of sheep and goats from wolf attacks, as well as Lupa – the she-wolf who nurtured the orphans Romulus and Remus, associated with the founding of Rome by legend.
The pagan fertility celebration was marked by all manner of rituals including a foot race among naked men, as they wore the skins of sacrificed goats.
Apparently, they would whip women staged along the race course as they ran.
Another ritual required a child to pair couples at random who would have to live together and be intimate for an entire next year in order to fulfil the fertility rite of the festival.
The church was eager to replace such practices with its own focus and thus St Valentine became the saint of lovers.
How did the holiday arrive in England?
Valentine’s Day was brought to England and France by Benedictine monks and the practice started to acquire more modern characteristics during the Middle Ages.
The poet Geoffrey Chaucer, is widely credited with spreading the notion of courtly romance through his writings, some dedicated to St. Valentine.
Writing ‘valentines’ to your beloved is most likely also linked to that same time period, with the oldest love note dating to the 15th century.
It was allegedly written by Charles d’ Orléans, who was being held in the Tower of London following his defeat at the Battle of Agincourt in 1415.
In the love letter, Charles wrote to his wife the words that translated to: “I am already sick of love, my very gentle Valentine”.
William Shakespeare also took part in popularising the link between Valentine’s Day and love.
He wrote about St Valentine’s Day in a romantic context as part of his play ‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream’.
How is the day known around the world?
Valentine’s Day is a popular day worldwide – here’s how it is celebrated and observed globally.
- In most Latin American countries like Costa Rica, Mexico and Puerto Rico, St Valentine’s Day is known as Día de los Enamorados (day of lovers) or as Día del Amor y la Amistad (Day of Love and Friendship).
- In Guatemala it is known as the “Día del Cariño” (Affection Day).
- In the Dominican Republic and El Salvador there is a tradition called Amigo secreto (“Secret friend”), similar to the Christmas tradition of Secret Santa.
- In Brazil, the Dia dos Namorados (“Lovers’ Day”) is celebrated on June 12, as that is the day before Saint Anthony’s day – the Brazilian Saint of Marriage
- Colombia celebrates Día del amor y la amistad on the third Saturday in September instead
- In Chinese, Valentine’s Day is called lovers’ festival and is celebrated on the seventh day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar. It commemorates a day on which a legendary cowherder and weaving maid are allowed to be together.
- Valentine’s Day celebrations did not catch on in India until around 1992, despite being the nation of the Kamasutra.
- In Japan, Morozoff Ltd. introduced the holiday for the first time in 1936, when it ran an ad aimed at foreigners. In 1953, it began promoting the giving of heart-shaped chocolates; other Japanese confectionery companies followed suit thereafter. In 1958, the Isetan department store ran a “Valentine sale” and further campaigns during the 1960s popularized the custom.
- In Saudi Arabia, in 2002 and 2008, religious police banned the sale of all Valentine’s Day items, telling shop workers to remove any red items, because the day is considered a Christian holiday. This ban has created a black market for roses and wrapping paper.
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- In the UK, just under half of the population spend money on their Valentines and around £1.3 billion is spent yearly on cards, flowers, chocolates, and other gifts, with an estimated 25 million cards being sent.
- In Wales, some people celebrate Dydd Santes Dwynwen (St Dwynwen’s Day) on January 25 instead of (or as well as) Valentine’s Day. The day commemorates St Dwynwen, the Welsh patron saint of love.
- On Saint Valentine’s Day in Ireland, many individuals who seek true love make a Christian pilgrimage to the Shrine of St. Valentine in Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, which is said to house relics of Saint Valentine of Rome
- In France, a traditionally Catholic country, Valentine’s Day is known simply as “Saint Valentin”, and is celebrated in much the same way as other western countries.
- Valentine’s Day in Greek tradition was not associated with romantic love. In the Eastern Orthodox church there is another Saint who protects people who are in love, Hyacinth of Caesarea (feast day July 3)