DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN we have sex my partner is so quiet I feel I’m not doing a good job in the bedroom.
She is 26, I am 30 and we have been together for four years. I love her and we are happy with our lives together.
She is inexperienced but I’ve had previous partners. We waited eight months until she felt ready to have sex.
Previous girlfriends made it clear if and when they were having a good time.
My girlfriend always says she enjoys sex very much and I am a good lover, yet she never says anything at the time or makes any noises that would indicate she is enjoying it.
DEIDRE SAYS: Do not make comparisons with previous lovers.
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Everyone expresses their feelings in their own way.
Take her word when she says she enjoys your sex life and you’re being a good lover but also ask her whether she prefers this touch or that.
Make it clear you are open to guidance.
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